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“I am retired, and now I know why they call this your golden years. It is because they take all your gold.” — Pondsville “I’m calling and wondering why can’t they put ‘Mary Worth’ back in the paper,...
View ArticleSexually Speaking: What Every Woman Needs to Know about Sexual Health
In this down-to-earth guide, celebrated sex expert and bestselling author Dr. Ruth Westheimer teams up with prominent gynecologist at Cornell and New York-Presbyterian, Dr. Amos Grunebaum, to address...
View ArticleCarolyn Kylstra - Cosmopolitan Magazine Senior Editor
Carolyn Kylstra is a senior editor at Cosmopolitan. She writes the “Ask Her Anything” sex and dating advice column in CFG: Cosmo For Guys, an iPad magazine for men. Prior to working at Cosmo, she wrote...
View ArticleSavage Love: 13 and Out
My 13-year-old son came out to us this morning. He plans to tell his brothers in the next few days. We love and accept our son, and this news isn't surprising (but when will the stereotypical neatness...
View ArticleSavage Love: Santorum Mess
I am writing to thank you. I remember reading your definition of "santorum" — "the frothy mix of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the byproduct of anal sex" — when it first appeared. I remember...
View ArticleInfidelity is never the solution for a troubled marriage
Q: For about six years, my wife and I have not had sex. We've talked about it, and she says she has no interest anymore. I've tried different things, like role-playing, and even have tried to touch her...
View ArticleHusband's disinterest in sex may mask other issues
Q: My husband is 60 years old, in great shape and a fitness fanatic. You never would think that he has sexual problems. For a few years, he has not wanted to have sex. At first I would beg for it and...
View ArticleHusband, wife have different timetable for lovemaking
Q: What, if anything, can be done about different levels of sexual interest? My wife and I both enjoy sex together, but I am interested in it happening about three times a week, and she seems to be...
View ArticleBoyfriend's lackluster kissing is turning her off
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. He is a wonderful man, and we plan to get married in the next couple of years. I am excited to continue our life together, but there is one...
View ArticleBickering and lack of sex create vicious circle in relationship
Q: I have no idea why my husband of only two years won't touch me. He doesn't even want to kiss me good night. I'm thinking that maybe he's not attracted to me anymore. We fight all the time — or I...
View ArticleAre there ways to revive a nonexistent libido?
Q: I'm a 25-year-old heterosexual woman with absolutely zero libido. I have never cared about sex, and it is beginning to be a serious problem with my boyfriend. I'm not on any medications, I'm in...
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